My husband made the move to leave me a couple of months ago! He packed up all of his shirts, pants, socks, and underwear and left when I was at my actual job… I was extremely disappointed, annoyed, and bothered, because the coward did not even leave a note or anything at all.
He did not have the dignity or the bravery to tell me that he was looking to get a divorce. Instead, he left during the middle of the afternoon and vanished. He texted me to say he was going to the lake to have some alone time. Approximately a month after he was gone, he called to tell me that he wanted a divorce. I did not know what to do in the beginning, because I counted on my husband for pretty much everything. He was the only person genuinely working at the time and he was covering all of the bills. I was frightened, but my friends and family helped me get through the initial shock. I was able to find a job a couple of weeks after my husband left the place. It doesn’t cost a huge amount of money, but it covers our expenses for certain. I do not have a tremendous amount of money saved up, so I was genuinely worried when the oil furnace in the basement stopped working altogether. I called a repair contractor that offered a free estimate and I found out that the oil furnace needed $350 worth of repairs. I did not have the money for luxurious oil furnace repairs, but my parents told me they would cover the bill. I’m so thankful not to be alone during this difficult time. I know things will get better in time, but this sorrow and hurt in my heart feels really horrible.